{"id":661,"date":"2018-01-08T14:54:06","date_gmt":"2018-01-08T14:54:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lovess.info\/?p=661"},"modified":"2018-02-09T08:12:58","modified_gmt":"2018-02-09T08:12:58","slug":"canli-sohbet-hatlari-anlasilir-ol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.chatmerkezi.info\/?p=661","title":{"rendered":"Canl\u0131 Sohbet Hatlar\u0131 &#8211; Anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r Ol"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-321\" src=\"http:\/\/m1.chatmerkezi.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/sule.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fimde ama\u00e7, bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi payla\u015fmak, duygu ve heyecanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlatmak, istek ve niyetlerimizi kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa iletmektir. G\u00f6zlemlerim sonucu diyebilirim ki, ili\u015fkilerde kendimizi anlat\u0131rken b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Di\u011ferlerince kabul edilmeme korkusu, d\u0131\u015flanma endi\u015fesi, sevilmeme kayg\u0131s\u0131, bizleri &#8220;kendimiz gibi davranmama&#8221; al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Sonu\u00e7ta da konu\u015fan ama anla\u015famayan insan y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim i\u00e7in kendinizi a\u00e7\u0131k ve anla\u015f\u0131labilir bir dil ile ifade ediniz. Unutmay\u0131n\u0131z ki sevgili <a href=\"http:\/\/m1.chatmerkezi.info\"><strong>canl\u0131 sohbet hatlar\u0131<\/strong> <\/a>kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131. anlatabildikleriniz kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin anlad\u0131klar\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. &#8220;Sen&#8221; li c\u00fcmleler yerine &#8220;ben&#8221; li c\u00fcmleler kurunuz. B\u00f6ylece su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olmazs\u0131n\u0131z ve kar\u015f\u0131 tarafta savunmaya ge\u00e7mez. \u201cYalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun\u201d yerine, &#8220;Bana yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum&#8221; gibi. K\u0131zg\u0131n insanlar\u0131 i\u00e7i hava dolu balon gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u00d6nce i\u00e7indeki havan\u0131n bo\u015falmas\u0131na izin vererek, istedi\u011finiz \u015fekle girebilecek durumu getirmek gerekir. \u0130li\u015fki y\u00f6netimi, i\u015f y\u00f6netimi ve ileti\u015fimin p\u00fcf noktalar\u0131ndan biridir bu. Hepimiz s\u00f6ylediklerimize \u00f6nem verilmesini, dinlenilmeyi, anla\u015f\u0131lmay\u0131 isteriz. Hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ilgi ve anlay\u0131\u015f sonucuna ula\u015fmasak da yeterlidir. Biz psikologlar da b\u00f6yle yapmaz m\u0131y\u0131z zaten sevgili <a href=\"http:\/\/m1.chatmerkezi.info\"><strong>canl\u0131 sohbet hatlar\u0131<\/strong> <\/a>kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131. \u0130yi dinleyici \u00f6zelli\u011fimizle, insanlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kendilerinin ula\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.\u0130leti\u015fimi \u00e7\u0131kmaza sokan; k\u0131zg\u0131n birini dinlememek, susturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak ve s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmektir. Hele s\u00f6ylediklerine itiraz etmek, tart\u0131\u015fmak, ne yapmas\u0131, ne yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek, iddia etmek, yarg\u0131lamak gibi davran\u0131\u015flardan kesinlikle ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131 tavsiye ederim. \u015eimdiye kadar hi\u00e7bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ula\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131 bunlarla. Ayr\u0131ca uzun a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini ikna etmeye yarad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, sonuca varman\u0131z \u00e7ok daha zor olacakt\u0131r. Neden mi? \u0130nsanlar \u00f6zellikle \u015fikayet ediyorlarsa zaten bir konuda karar vermi\u015fler ve onun ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilmesini sa\u011flaman\u0131z i\u00e7in sizinle ileti\u015fim kuruyorlard\u0131r. \u0130stedi\u011fini verme \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z yoksa en iyisi nedenini uzun uzun anlatmak yerine; ona ne kadar \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verdi\u011finizi, yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, ama yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatmak olacakt\u0131r. Ancak her ileti\u015fimden memnu kalm\u0131yorsan\u0131z sizi menun edecek olan \u015fey <a href=\"http:\/\/m1.chatmerkezi.info\"><strong>canl\u0131 sohbet hatlar\u0131<\/strong><\/a>d\u0131r. Dakika ba\u015f\u0131na \u00fccretlendirilen hatlar\u0131m\u0131z her operat\u00f6r \u00fczerinden ba\u011flant\u0131 kura bilirsiniz. Yedi yirmi d\u00f6rt haftan\u0131n herg\u00fcn\u00fc ve g\u00fcn\u00fcn her saati hizmet halinde olan hatlar\u0131m\u0131z tamamen g\u00fcvenlidir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130leti\u015fimde ama\u00e7, bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi payla\u015fmak, duygu ve heyecanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlatmak, istek ve niyetlerimizi kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa iletmektir. G\u00f6zlemlerim sonucu diyebilirim ki, ili\u015fkilerde kendimizi anlat\u0131rken b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Di\u011ferlerince kabul edilmeme korkusu, d\u0131\u015flanma endi\u015fesi, sevilmeme kayg\u0131s\u0131, bizleri &#8220;kendimiz gibi davranmama&#8221; al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Sonu\u00e7ta da konu\u015fan ama anla\u015famayan insan y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. 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